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Dating Games Played by Men in Costa Rica

The Costa Rican Times has decided to add a column where both our readers as well as our staff can share stories about living in Costa Rica.  If you go outside your house, apartment, or condo in Costa Rica, things will happen to you each and everyday that will both annoy you and have you say in your mind “Are you kidding me?”.  This happens in your day to day activities each day if you are living in Costa Rica.  Read and share your stories today!  (Submission info is at the bottom of each article in this section)

Dating Games Played in Costa Rica

I used to be one of the biggest game players when it came to dating, but that was a long time ago.  When you are dating in Costa Rica all I need to do is transport back to high school to read through the games that women fall for every day down here in Costa Rica. I know that good guys are hard to find here but it does not mean you have to fall for the lies that so many of the guys down here use to get you to fall for them.  If you look with even a little bit of common sense and reason these wanna be players games will be exposed from the beginning.

Guys are going to say why are you trying to ruin this for us. Guess what no matter what I say women are going to continue to fall for your bullshit and lies so do not worry this is like as Alanis would say “it is the good advice that you just can’t take.”

First of all you need to know the reasons that guys play these games with women.

  • They are emotionally immature. A man who is dealing with emotional scars or baggage from the past is more likely to play mind games with the women he meets. Typically all men in Costa Rica are immature in general.  Ticos turn 14 and then stay at that maturity level until about age 45. Most gringos come down here at over 45 years old and see Costa Rican women as a way to fulfill their midlife crisis and act like irresponsible idiots.
  • Men need to feel superior. On word – Machismo!
  • Men use mind games to tease women.
  • Men often use mind games to gauge a woman’s interest in them. Its very childish but we are all afraid of rejection so a man will resort to mind games just to see if a woman is interested in him or not.
  • Some men play mind games because they are jerks. There is no way to sugar coat this. There are two types of men – the good men and the jerks who simply get off on playing mind games with women.

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It is very surprising to me how many women I see in Costa Rica that fall for these games and fall head over feet in love with these morons in about 10 minutes.  When they fall for them they then begin to ignore the signs that this guy really does not give a rats ass about them other than the fact that they were a conquest and after sleeping with the woman that conquest was complete.
Some signs and advice for women coming from a guy that used to use these games to get pretty much any girl I wanted.
1. If he tells you he’s not ready for a relationship. This means that he does not want to commit to you and is not that interested in you.  Stop thinking that he will one day once he sees how great you are. In most cases you are just his back up plan.
2. He is secretive.  He does not let you go near his phone, he does not want to tell you what he is doing or gets defensive when you ask, or he does not want to be seen with you in public. This means he has something to hide.
3. He lies and you catch him in his lies.  This should be obvious but in most cases “love” has blinded the woman to his excuses and they will believe anything he says.  Use your brain instead of listening to your blinded heart.
4. He Wants to Date Right Away – Just like when a guy does not want to get into a relationship one that wants to start one right away should throw up the red flag as well.  They usually want to do this because they know if a woman gets to know them they will not want to be with them.  Woman take your time when dating a guy, we can usually be our fake selves for about a max of 4 weeks.  After that time you will start to see the real person we are.
Woman use your heads when dating anywhere especially in Costa Rica.  Ticos love to conquer gringa woman and old gringos love to conquer young Tica women to satisfy some midlife crisis.  Most are not looking for anything serious, so listen to your reason and not your heart when getting into Costa Rican relationships.  As a guy I know that most immature men will say or do anything for a few weeks to get into the pants of a woman as a conquest.
I mean in college I used to go to bars and be a professional lacrosse player or a minor league baseball player to take a girl home.  Although most people try to drop these games when in college, they are quite common in Costa Rica.  Take your time getting to know someone, most of the time what they say first is the person they invented down here. As time passes you will meet the person they really are.

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